12 Tips to Help You Keep Going When You Feel Like Quitting Homeschooling
Feeling overwhelmed by homeschooling? You’re not alone. Whether you're tired, discouraged, or facing unexpected life changes, it’s natural to consider quitting. In this honest and hopeful article, veteran homeschool mom and board-certified practitioner Myeshi Briley shares practical tips to help you push through tough seasons, weigh your options, and reconnect with your purpose.
At some point, every homeschool parent imagines the peace of a clean, quiet, and organized house—the kind you might have if your kids went to public or private school. Let’s be honest: homeschooling can be hard.
We may want to quit because we’re:
Exhausted and overwhelmed
Longing for adult conversation
Struggling with doubts—about our intelligence, patience, organization, or ability
Convinced we’re too far behind to ever catch up
And our kids?
Complain about school
Don’t listen
Bicker constantly
Have the attention span of a flea
Sometimes, quitting feels like the only option, especially when life throws real curveballs, like:
Job loss or financial stress
A new baby
A serious illness in the family
Natural disasters or other unexpected crises
But here’s the truth: these are also reasons not to quit.
You chose to homeschool for a reason—because you believed it was the best path for your child and your family. That reason is still valid, even in hard seasons.
Is the Grass Really Greener? Comparing Educational Options
Raising well-adjusted, responsible, kind-hearted humans is never easy—no matter what educational path you choose. There’s no perfect school, no perfect system, and no perfect parent. But with homeschooling, you get to face the challenges with more control and intention.
Let’s look at a few common struggles—and how they compare across educational choices.
Homework
School Option: Kids spend 6–8 hours at school, then bring home 3–4 more hours of homework.
Homeschooling: You guide your child through their lessons in about 4–5 hours, and the work is typically done during the school day.
Peer Influence & Attitudes
School Option: Children may pick up language, behaviors, or attitudes that clash with your family’s values.
Homeschooling: Kids may resist lessons, but they’re learning within the framework of your values—and still get time for play, discovery, and creativity.
Learning Disabilities
School Option: You may spend months—or years—fighting for appropriate accommodations or dealing with stigmas.
Homeschooling: You can tailor the learning to your child’s strengths and pace, helping them thrive without feeling "less than."
Strain on the Family
School Option: Juggling full-time work, school drop-offs, homework, and household needs can be emotionally draining.
Homeschooling: While it may mean living on one income or running a flexible business, it gives you more time with your kids and more say in their growth.
Educational Gaps
School Option: The curriculum is often dictated by the district, not your priorities.
Homeschooling: You decide what matters most—whether that’s a strong faith foundation, life skills, or advanced STEM.
Reminder: Every educational path has “gaps.” There will always be something your child forgets, doesn’t master, or wasn’t taught. The goal is not perfection—but lifelong learning.
Your Influence on Their Future
School Option: Teachers may have different goals, worldviews, or teaching methods than you.
Homeschooling: You have the privilege of guiding both their academic growth and their character development.
12 Tips to Keep Going When You’re Ready to Quit
If you’re feeling like giving up, try these practical steps first:
Invest in your own learning.
Take a class, read a book, or attend a homeschool convention. Learn what works for your child’s learning style or unique needs.
Lean on your community.
Talk to a trusted friend, join a co-op, or join a group here on our site for encouragement.
Outsource subjects that stress you out.
Use tutors, video courses, or online classes for topics that aren’t your strength.
Ignore the naysayers.
You know your child better than anyone. Keep focused on your family’s goals—not others’ opinions.
Rest before making a decision.
Exhaustion clouds judgment. Step back, get some sleep, then reassess.
Identify the real issue.
Is it a specific subject, age gap between kids, clutter, or loneliness? Pinpoint the problem and troubleshoot it directly.
Revisit your “why.”
Reflect on why you started homeschooling and what you hoped to give your child.
Write a vision list.
Post it where you’ll see it daily—on your fridge, your mirror, or your planner.
Connect with other homeschoolers.
Sometimes a coffee date or encouraging word from a fellow homeschool mom is all you need.
Don’t overcommit.
Protect your time and energy. It’s okay to say “no” to extras that don’t serve your goals.
Take a break.
Hit pause. Call it a “teacher in-service” day. Visit a museum, pull out art supplies, or just let the kids dive deep into an interest.
Research your options—then decide.
If you truly need to explore other schooling routes, do so with clarity, prayer, and information—not guilt or panic.
Final Thoughts
No homeschool parent has it all together all the time. No parent—period—does. But homeschooling isn’t about perfection. It’s about growth, grace, and being present in your child’s life in a meaningful way.
Homeschooling may not always be easy, but it’s often worth it.